And, But, Or, So: The Connector Four
The four little words that join ideas: and adds, but contrasts, or offers, so shows the result. Sentence glue, level one.
Coordinating Conjunctions
The sentence glue
And, but, or and so are the glue of English: they join two ideas into one sentence. Each one has its own job.
And — adds
one more of the sameI like tea and coffee
But — contrasts
the opposite directionI wanted to go, but I was tired
Or — chooses
one of two optionsDo you want tea or coffee?
So — the result
the second idea followsIt rained, so we stayed home
⚠️ And adds, but contrasts, or chooses, so shows the result.
The Formula
idea + connector + idea
Two ideas, one connector in the middle. The connector tells the listener how the ideas fit together.
I liketeaandcoffee
I wanted to go,butI was tired
Do you wantteaorcoffee?
It rained,sowe stayed home
Common Mistakes
Four glue slips
The glue cracks when the connectors swap jobs: adding with so, contrasting with and, or choosing with and.
I like tea so coffee.
I like tea and coffee.
💡 Two likes being added take and.
He studied hard but he passed the exam.
He studied hard so he passed the exam.
💡 A result takes so. But flips the direction.
Do you want tea so coffee?
Do you want tea or coffee?
💡 A choice takes or.
I was tired and I went to bed early.
I was tired so I went to bed early.
💡 The result of being tired is going to bed → so.
Quick Quiz
Test what you just learned
Three minutes, five questions — check what stuck. No essay questions, we promise.
I speak English ___ a little French.
💡 Extra info2 sections
Which Connector?
One question picks the glue
The relationship between the two ideas chooses the connector.
The Connector Four
Match the connector with the job
Four connectors, four jobs. This is the full toolkit of sentence glue.
⚠️ And, but, or, so — the basics. The advanced connectors (although, however) come next.